Examples of when you are a victim of sexual violence
Sexual violence covers any form of unwanted sexual activity where consent is not present or where you have been coerced or manipulated into activity of a sexual nature. This could be if you:
Being forced into sex with your partner
Sexual violence is not limited to non-consensual sex with a stranger, but can also involve your own partner. It is important to understand that consent must be free and voluntary and any attempt to coerce you into sexual activity is unacceptable.
Being sexually exploited without consent while sleeping
Being exploited while asleep is an extremely serious form of sexual violence as it is impossible to give consent while asleep. It is a clear violation of your boundaries and rights, whether it's your partner or a stranger.
Being subjected to unwanted touching
Unwanted touching, whether in an intimate or non-intimate context, is a violation of your bodily integrity. It's important to know that you have the right to decide who can touch your body - even if it's from your partner.
Being verbally threatened with rape
Verbal threats of rape are no less harmful than physical violence. They can create fear, anxiety and feelings of powerlessness.
Being sexually exploited while drunk
If you are drunk or under the influence of drugs, you cannot legally give consent. Taking advantage of someone in such a state constitutes sexual violence.
Being coerced or manipulated into sharing intimate images of yourself
It is a form of digital sexual violence where your partner or others can threaten, pressure or manipulate you into sharing intimate images or videos. It is a serious invasion of privacy and can have far-reaching consequences. You can read more about digital violence
here.
Sharing intimate photos without your consent
Sharing your intimate images without your permission is a gross violation of your privacy and can cause great damage to your mental and emotional health.
Experiencing sexual violence in a relationship is a traumatic experience that can leave deep scars on the soul. It is important to remember that you are not alone and that help is available. Ellested Women's Crisis Centre and other organizations are here to support you in leaving the abusive situation and help you process the trauma you have experienced. You have the right to live a life free from fear and violence, and we are here to help you achieve that.