VIOLENCE AGAINST CHILDREN
The right to reprimand in Denmark and the fight against violence against children
In Denmark, the right to reprimand was abolished in 1997, meaning that parents or caregivers are no longer allowed to use physical punishment as a method of disciplining children. The change in legislation is an important milestone in the protection of children's rights and welfare, and the abolition of corporal punishment recognizes that domestic violence (whether physical or psychological) can have serious and long-lasting consequences for children and sends a clear message that every child has the right to grow up in a violence-free and loving environment.
A shadow side of the home
While children should grow up in a safe and loving environment, violence against children is unfortunately a deeply worrying and heartbreaking reality that still exists in our society. Physical violence against children is any intentional use of force or violence against a child that results in pain, injury or suffering. It can include anything from pushing, punching and kicking to burns and attempted strangulation. But when we talk about violence against children, it's important to understand that it doesn't just refer to physical abuse. Psychological violence against children is an equally serious form of abuse and can have long-lasting consequences for the children affected.
What is violence against children?
Violence against children includes any form of abuse or neglect that affects a child's physical or mental health and well-being; including physical, psychological, sexual or emotional violence and neglect. Psychological violence against children refers to actions or behaviors by adults or other children that are intended to manipulate, intimidate, control or humiliate the child in a way that damages their self-esteem, confidence and mental health.
Examples of psychological violence against children
It can be more difficult to identify psychological violence against children as it often occurs covertly, without visible physical signs. Here are some examples of psychological violence against children:
Humiliation and ridicule
Constantly humiliating, ridiculing or belittling the child can have serious consequences for their self-esteem and confidence.
Threats
Threats of physical or verbal violence if the child does not meet certain requirements can create a constant fear and insecurity in the child.
Insulation
Preventing the child from having contact with friends, family or other support people.
Ignoring and "cold" treatment
Constant ignoring or negative treatment where the child feels overlooked or unwanted, which can lead to severe emotional trauma.
Guilt, blame and shame
Imposing guilt or shame on your child for their actions or feelings can have serious long-term consequences for their mental health.
Domestic violence and its impact on the child
Children living in a violent home face a range of challenges and consequences that can have a profound impact on their lives. These consequences include psychological stress and anxiety due to the ongoing fear and tension in a violent home. They live in a constant state of alertness, which can have a negative impact on their mental wellbeing. Children who are exposed to domestic violence can also develop low self-esteem as a result of the constant humiliation and threats they face.
In school, children who experience domestic violence may have difficulty concentrating and performing, and the traumatic experiences they have lived through make it challenging for them to participate in class. Some children also develop aggressive behavior as a form of defense mechanism, as they have difficulty managing their emotions and use aggression as a way to protect themselves.
Long-term exposure to domestic violence can lead to the development of mental health disorders such as depression or post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Children may experience nightmares, flashbacks and general psychological distress as a result of the traumatic experiences.
Ellested Kvindekrisecenter works with children who have been exposed to domestic violence and offers professional support and therapy to help them process their trauma and achieve a healthier future.
Breaking the cycle of violence
Breaking the cycle of violence against children is essential to create a safe and healthy environment for future generations. This means first and foremost identifying and reporting the incidents of violence, getting support and help for the traumatized children and helping the families through counselling and therapy.
If you witness or suspect violence against a child, it is important to respond by reporting it and talking to people or organizations working against violence against children. Children who are victims of violence need support and help to get through the trauma, and psychological counseling and therapy can help children. Sometimes the violence is a result of stress or problems within the family, and it is important to try to understand the underlying causes while protecting the child's safety and well-being.
The role of Ellestedet in combating violence against children
Violence against children, including psychological domestic violence, is a serious challenge that requires urgent action. Ellested Women's Crisis Center offers a safe haven where families can find protection and support during a difficult time, and our experienced counselors and therapists are here to help children and the rest of the family work through their trauma.
We believe that children are the future, and we are determined to help break the cycle of violence and create a world where all children can grow up in a safe and loving home.