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POSTPONED
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VIOLENCE?
If you are a victim of domestic violence, it is best to continue your "normal" life, but with the protection and security that we can provide at Ellested Women's Crisis Center.
However, some women need to get away from their immediate environment.
Other women can manage their daily obligations with work and children in school and daycare. Let us hear your stories and needs, and together we can find a way out of violence.
THE PATTERN AND DYNAMICS OF VIOLENCE
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CAUGHT IN THE SPIRAL OF VIOLENCE?
THE FUNNEL OF THE SPIRAL OF VIOLENCE
1. the relationship starts
2. Falling in love
3. idealization
4. Physical and psychological violence starts small
5. Any other violence, e.g. physical
6. Displacement
7. Normalizing violence
8. Shame and guilt
9. responsibility
10. Loss of confidence and self-esteem
11. insulation
12. loss of network
GETTING SUCKED INTO THE FUNNEL OF VIOLENCE
A cycle of violence
PHASES OF VIOLENCE
The Cycle of Violence
Intimate partner violence has its own unique dynamic that is often played out over and over again between the parties. This makes it recognizable, but no less dangerous, as it is often seen to become more violent and degrading each time. Understanding the pattern is essential to breaking the dynamic.
The remorse phase:
The tension phase:
Victim tries to adapt to avoid conflict and may think it's his/her own fault. Perpetrator becomes increasingly patronizing and controlling.